Miss USA’s traditional values? … Is America in the midst of a Culture War or a Word War III? Are leaders playing Russian Roulette with our lives or are they merely playing word games? Quite obviously, our leaders’ ADD still doesn’t add up—as they enlighten & entertain us through personal-public agendas, interviews, speeches, books, seminars, shows and all else, financial & family crises multiply. Because most luminary experts seem either slightly touched, untouchable or unreachable, the results are in. While mainstream Americans are teetering on the brink of spiritual & financial bankruptcy—accidentally on purpose—most luminaries are laughing all the way to the bank. Then, most try to make their corruption appear honorable by making large donations to charities or by becoming advocates for various causes. Since any luminary has enough power to initiate social reforms, it would seem that ending our crises & minimizing the need for charity would be much more honorable than making token donations. There is nothing charitable about brainwashing and manipulating people into desperation or poverty and then, rescuing them while allowing brutal cycles of destruction to continue.
“This people honors me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me; In vain do they worship me, teaching as doctrines human precepts.” (Mt 15:8-9)
It’s quite tragic that only “words” of most Presidents, politicians and other “luminaries” validate America as “The Land of the Free and the Home of the Brave” as well as Religious! ”Words” in President Obama’s 5-21-09 speech on National Security speak for themselves: “These are extraordinary times for our country. We’re confronting a historic economic crisis. We’re fighting two wars. We face a range of challenges that will define the way that Americans will live in the 21st century. So there’s no shortage of work to be done, or responsibilities to bear … But I believe with every fiber of my being that in the long run we also cannot keep this country safe unless we enlist the power of our most fundamental values. The documents that we hold in this very hall — the Declaration of Independence, the Constitution, the Bill of Rights — these are not simply words written into aging parchment. They are the foundation of liberty and justice in this country, and a light that shines for all who seek freedom, fairness, equality, and dignity around the world.”
Although President Obama’s speech covered a multitude of issues, two key areas still seem above his pay grade. As the President continues to focus on “due process” for terrorists, “due process” for millions of violated Americans continues to be ignored. The same type of cloudy logic might be attributed to the President’s closing statement: “Thank you, God bless you, and God bless the United States of America.” Is our President asking for blessings from the God who is pro-choice or pro-life? Is our President speaking of the God who condemns homosexuality through the Bible or the God who protects homosexuality through our laws. Is our President referring to the God who forbids adultery through the Commandments or the God who protects adultery through No-fault divorce laws. God’s truths and natural laws of life have never been unclear—our laws and trends are. Since corrupt laws corrupt people, it would seem that Congress needs to have a little chat with the ABA, AMA & APA. Quite obviously, the clear and present danger of corrupt laws is not the only challenge. Private & public characters are the other major issue: “If I fail to keep the promises I made to the people closest to me, then I’m not sure how reliable I’m going to be in keeping promises to total strangers who vote for me.” (Governor Huckabee)
Private & public violations of traditional American values are known to all of us. In fact, they have been the root of our Culture Wars as well as the root of personal agony for countless victims for decades. Oddly, when it comes to protection of our families or security of our nation, Governor Huckabee might have been the only Presidential candidate brave enough to mention the ”other” inconvenient truth: “What’s the point of keeping the terrorists at bay in the Middle East if we can’t keep decline and decadence at bay here at home? The growing number of children born out of wedlock, and the rise in no-fault divorce, has been a disaster for our society … They have pushed many women and children into poverty and onto the welfare, food stamp, and Medicaid rolls. These children are more likely to drop out of school and end up in low-paying, dead-end jobs, they are more likely to get involved with drugs and crime, they are more likely to have children out of wedlock or get divorced themselves someday, continuing the unhappy cycle.”
Continuing the Unhappy Cycle … “Lying is done with words, and also with silence.” Because most leaders continue to look the other way or claim to have no right to meddle in “private” affairs of others, our country’s enslavement to “private” agendas & “special” groups has reached an all time low. Tragically, since “experts” also encourage family members & friends not to take sides in divorce matters, victims continue to be denied justice, validation & empowerment—without emotional & legal protection, their only options have been to bend, beg, blog or blend and remain silent. Once ethical parenting became a rare right of privileged few, majority of our society was destined to suffer emotionally, intellectually, physically, financially and for some, religiously. By now, most Americans no longer discern between right or wrong and good or bad. Consequently most children continue to be groomed into cohabitation, adultery, homosexuality, contraception and countless other “normal” violations. With adults tolerating or supporting such behaviors as well as enjoying them, our society’s crisis is not only a private travesty & a public disaster—it’s a national catastrophe.
Erosion of discernment between right & wrong erodes love, truth, justice & protection. In time, endless individual failures guarantee a “failed state” because fundamental values are at the very roots of our sustenance & survival. Unfortunately, even Houdini could not escape our society’s entrapment—new violations are in the works while old hot spots are never revisited nor cooled. As such, the injustice of No-fault divorce, domestic partnerships and abortion will continue to enjoy popularity in addition to new “cool goodies” such as being taxed to death to pay for “free” health care with our own money. Although none of us can blame President Obama for decades of corrupt laws and social engineering, leadership can make and break a nation as well as individuals. So far, the Obama administration has addressed the financial aspect of our crisis but not its very social & unfriendly twin. As such, immoral gods and goddesses are still free to judge, legislate & impose their “morality” upon our entire society. “Woe to those who call evil good, and good evil.” (Is 5:20) Unfortunately, growing popularity of the “bad-girl & bad-boy” mentality finds truth & good very inconvenient, intolerant & biased. When it comes to No-fault divorce, abortion and homosexuality, truth & good will soon be banned because experts deemed them to be illegal, hateful & offensive. While not all of our leaders are corrupt or deceptive, to continue with their usual course of inaction is ludicrous. To only focus on the financial, political or physical sides of life is dangerous and not very wise—”Character and conduct shape each other.”
“There should be no disagreement between our lives and our doctrines.” God’s laws and natural moral laws of life are equal but people are not. It’s not very wise nor nice when skillful & deceitful “experts” try to fool human beings about being human. Not all of us are experts on the economy but, being human, all of us are experts on human anatomy. After all, no other civilization had the benefit of our information on socio-psycho-biological interrelations between a man, woman & child. As such, unless unless one is a blind hypocrite or an innocent victim of social engineering, one’s ethics & life’s experiences will be equal, except for temporary, occasional but human errors. Huge & small blunders are normal and sometimes good for us—repeating, enjoying & maintaining abusive behaviors is not normal. No religious or secular “expert” will deny that moral illness as a social norm is dangerous and must be replaced by moral stability despite continual rise in opposition.
Aside from being honorable & agreeable, only an ethical way of life ensures integrity for self, one’s family & society. As such, leaders or experts unable or unwilling to confirm and conform to a basic code of ethics are highly dangerous—as usual, with power comes an even graver responsibility. Tragically, some leaders are too busy with their own adultery, homosexuality, abortion or other violations to confirm or deny anything! Many leaders are “afraid” to validate the truth, some are genuinely misinformed, some are purposefully negligent while others are “afraid” to even enter the political arena. It is no secret that major power players are afraid to reconcile our “reconcilable differences” because such actions might cause loss of reputation, power, popularity and money! If truth be told, none of us should blame them—legal courts and the courts of public opinion have become so vicious that unjust treatment of leaders and private individuals is now a normal part of our culture. Although duration & depth of our crises are understandable, they are not excusable—countless private & public individuals are at risk or being threatened daily while others have already died from natural, unnatural or mysterious causes. Even if one manages to survive, no child or adult should be subjected to avoidable & illegal hardship or harm caused by negligence. Quite obviously, until civil and religious rights or laws become real, we can’t! Most of current “reality shows” prove it!
“It isn’t very pretty what a nation without pity & justice can do.” Being blind to justice, some Republicans, Democrats & Independents champion law & order only when it fits their agenda while others tend to be champions of corrupt laws instead of justice & people. As such, instead of “the press” watching over “the pres and his administration,” our injustice system has been shaped by decades of corrupt media watching over corrupt politicians—so much for our famous checks & balances. To date, many ethical leaders continue to be barred or overruled; ergo, instead of rule of law & justice, our nation is ruled by whims and whips of extreme liberals, feminists, homosexuals & adulterers. Ultimate or undeniable proof is in our laws, society, broken homes and hearts. By now, even the difference between some liberal & conservative “experts or luminaries” is becoming marginal—too many seem to be high on arrogance & information but low on empathy & intelligence. Unfortunately, they’ll be the first ones to deny IT and US—thus, unopposed, spin doctors not only plot the course for adults but also for all the children in America. Consequently, as liberals get more liberal so do most conservatives and tyrannical libertarians. As their blatant & illegal abuse of power continues, love, truth & justice remain on backorder.
“I never wonder to see men wicked, but I often wonder to see them not ashamed.” (Jonathan Swift) It’s tragic that leaders insist on apology & change from arrogant preachers or terrorists but allow extreme terrorism from liberalism, feminism, homosexuality & adultery to spread like wildfire. What was the spark that lit the fuse? Was it an isolated incident or a series of unfortunate events? Did abuse of power start with the APA, AMA & ABA or with ABC, CBS, NBC and our government? When did America begin to negotiate & grant terrorist demands? The spark was probably lit in 1960 when birth-control became superior to self-control. While the desire to have lots of sex but not lots of children is illogical, unnatural & dangerous, the “Pill” is not the only “goodie” that made our society ill. ”On September 5, 1969, with a stroke of his pen, California governor Ronald Reagan wiped out the moral basis for marriage in America.” In 1973, feminist terrorists demanded that we keep our rosaries off their ovaries. Their false but “legal & intelligent” claim to fame is for every woman to have “sovereign control over her own body.” Oddly, only genuine feminists will admit that except for rape and murder, all women in America already had sovereign control over their own body even before the pill and abortion became a possibility—if truth be told, nothing contributed to a woman’s loss of sovereign control over her body and life as much as No-fault, contraception & abortion —to date, nothing enslaves a woman more than liberal sexual freedom. Similarly, the 1977 battle for homosexual freedom did not end discrimination nor help women, men or children. As evidenced by the last 30 years of discrimination against Judaism & Christianity, for every unnatural action there is an unnatural reaction.
To date, demands for domestic partnership or gay marriages are based on intimidation and not on intellectual, religious or natural laws of life. Along with all the obvious reasons, homosexual manipulation of tolerance & compassion innate to all traditional religions has been one of the contributing factors behind the astounding success of the homosexual movement. Otherwise, bald-faced lies would have never been legalized. Given that homosexuals cannot be fruitful and multiply should have ended their quest years ago. All of us know why homosexuals took a bite out of the old fruit theory about apples and oranges, but few of us understand how a Judeo-Christian nation allowed such lifestyles to attain popularity and legality. Deception about equal rights or equality of a homosexual marriage with a heterosexual marriage is the ultimate goal for homosexuals not for attainment of a marriage license but for attainment of irrefutable moral & legal approval for an immoral & unnatural lifestyle. “What defines a family? According to Ms. Drew Barrymore, “We do!” If truth be told, none of us do: human nature defined the bond between a man, woman and child as the only natural bond—inseparable & undeniable needs of every human being validated & protected the natural family from the beginning of “civil” life based on physical as well as emotional needs which are also validated by all traditional religions & ethical principles of life. As such, even though Ms. Barrymore’s sincerity is genuine, she is a living proof of misguided humanitarian efforts & lifestyles.
Nothing speaks louder than reality—words are not the only means of affirmation—actions of homosexual parents will usually teach children to embrace homosexuality or bisexuality while lifestyles of adulterous parents will usually teach their children to embrace adultery. Horror and gravity of adultery are confirmed by the Commandments and validated by violated spouses and children. Most parents want to scream with agony and grab or shield their children from further abuse and pain. Tragically, following one’s basic instincts and rights is no longer legal and might put one at risk of ending up in jail or worse yet, a mental institution. Fact that overturning of tables or expelling adulterous cohorts from one’s house might be deemed illegal is one thing. It’s quite a different matter to be punished for teaching one’s children to differentiate between religious laws and violations. The double insult of hypocrisy is obvious—since adultery is irrelevant in most Family Law Courts they not only empower it but prevent victims from validating their pain and receiving protection. To date, stories about fathers loving their children or mothers missing their children evoke empathy but not truth—accidentally on purpose, most of these parents rarely mention their adultery and how much pain and agony they inflicted upon their spouses and children. Then, to add insult to injury, experts will punish most victimized parents if they “insist” on teaching their children about adultery of the other parent and damages inflicted by the adulterous couple upon the family. The same legal restraints would apply to a heterosexual parent objecting to parental rights of homosexual parents.
By now, we’ve grown wise and disguise our agony because any parent found screaming or tearing with pain might be deemed by experts as an unfit parent and risk unjust limitations on custody of their child. Once expert body snatchers are through with most victims of divorce, whether the parents are traumatized, medicated or lobotomized, all become civil or cooperative with any evil courts might mandate. Having to choose between one’s God, principles and children is one of the most heinous and unjust atrocities of the 21st century and the main atrocity demolishing individuals, families, religions and society. Anyone who is casual about religious beliefs or ethical principles will not experience or understand the crux of their violations just like most of our children no longer consider divorced parents a novelty but a reality. With the Roman Catholic Church not allowing divorce within valid marriages even on grounds of adultery, it would seem that they still take adultery seriously. Sadly, that’s not the case. It’s highly hypocritical and dangerous that Catholic authorities have taken very serious steps to protect children against homosexual adoptions but have not yet even considered protecting children from adulterous or homosexual parents—being violated by a biological parent is much more heinous than being violated by a stranger. Damages inflicted upon helpless children by dysfunctional and unnatural violations of adultery and homosexuality are the same damages already proven to be powerful enough to corrupt stable adults and sustain our nation’s catastrophe.
Catholic parents tried to protect their children, families and faith in a manner similar to other ethical and religious parents. Children might listen to parents’ lectures but trends and laws of our nation speak louder than most parents. As such, when our government proclaimed adultery, homosexuality and abortion legal, by default, Judeo-Christian teachings on those issues became illegal, irrelevant, outdated, idiotic, hateful, bigoted and all else. Given that parenting is the most difficult and important of all professions, violating ethical standards on vital and visible facts of life also demolished parental teachings on countless other facts of life related to common sense, not common law. Manner of clothing or music might not deal with crucial legislation like cloning, but endless issues of lesser importance are mere stepping stones to a lifetime of good or bad habits and the cornerstone of our society—marriage, children and family. Oddly, instead of blaming the most disastrous social experiment in modern history—No-fault—too many leaders have the audacity to blame parents violated by corrupt laws and experts who are blaming, shaming and scamming or “helping” them. Who is in charge of our experts? Why were all experts very vocal and outraged by our nation’s economic crisis or the Madoff Ponzi scheme but not over our nation’s social crisis? Why are steps being taken to correct financial disasters but not social ones. Aren’t our lives and children more valuable than money? Why is abuse of people tolerated in 21st century America? To date, luminary experts are against termination of “No-fault” mentality and injustice but they do believe in termination of marriages, termination of families, termination of parental rights, termination of pregnancies and termination of common sense dealing with countless issues like homosexuality or cohabitation.
The wounded soul of our society has never been more visible. Millions of women have been deceived by hostile feminists and their partners in crime—con-fused men and experts. Nonsense about having the right to one’s own body ignores lives and rights of their children—abortion kills because abstaining from abortion creates life. As such, only extreme feminists are pro-abortion and against genuine feminists who feel deep sorrow over aborting a child, change, seek help and receive forgiveness. While all victims of abortion deserve empathy and support, a woman horrified by abortion is quite different from a woman glorifying abortion. Similar type of toxic cycles are victimizing non-practicing and active homosexuals. As such, need for help and compassion is obvious. Understanding victims of No-fault divorce laws is the first vital step in alleviating a very brutal and life-altering way of life. Innocent, violated spouses need validation of their pain, suffering & damages as much as their violators need help to end adulterous trends, addictions, malice or abandonment. Because children will always need both of their natural parents, sole custody must be given to the ethical parent and protective visitation rights to the dysfunctional parent. After all, family prostitution is much more vile and harmful than prostitution for money. Consequently, remarriage should not be an option because it will violate all members of the original family and perpetuate social cycles of marriage, betrayal and abuse. However, if there is no reconciliation and one or both parents insist on remarriage, legal & social solutions should revert to similar empowerment & attitudes that governed divorces before No-fault divorce laws.
Although serial divorces & remarriages are very alarming, only half of them originate from premeditated malice. The other half—innocent spouses violated and forced to divorce—usually remarry out of pain, desperation or con-fusion. Their perpetrators usually remarry for adulterous pleasure or malicious manipulation—court & social empowerment of malicious or adulterous men and women as “honorable spouses” or “good parents” has been the main root & route to every crisis in America. Oftentimes, they’re our new husbands, wives, parents, bosses, teachers, entertainers, politicians or religious leaders. Naturally, because separation was always available but rarely used by victims at risk of emotional or physical abuse, a change in divorce laws must be accompanied by a change in social attitudes.
Should adulterous men and women even bother to enter politics? Is adultery committed with a prostitute less noble than family adultery committed with a coworker or a friend? Since none of us can be perfect, expecting perfection from public figures is illogical—adultery makes or breaks adulterous men and women—some become saints and could become the most powerful and helpful advocates against adultery, No-fault divorce, homosexuality or abortion. Because we have yet to witness such a miracle, one might think that most adulterous men and women in the public forum are still clueless and probably not qualified to lead their own families, much less our society. After proper soul searching, apologies, reparations and forgiveness, most adulterous men and women would probably desire to keep their halos polished—to do so, one must offer private and public reparations to victims until all major wounds have been healed—initially, victims are in dire need of repetitive daily apologies and reassurances—with gradual return of trust, need for apologies and reparations diminishes in frequency but not in necessity. God does not keep score and allows everyone to confess, change, apologize and start anew. Although we are made in God’s image, we are not gods. As such, repetitive apologies and reparations are not only good for the victims but also for the sinners not as punishment but as the best agent for keeping their own halos polished. Everyone should love a repentant sinner, but only if the repentance is genuine. Repetitive sins are powerful red flags but never more powerful than eventual genuine repentance and redemption!
Will our lives be better or worse, richer or poorer under the Obama administration than during the Bush era? What are President Obama’s and our nation’s fundamental values? Are the same fundamental values applicable in private and in public? Needless to say, all fundamental values deal with vital matters that shape life and death—most are nonnegotiable. Choices on minor matters in life such as vacations or hobbies are endless and enjoyable. Marriage and children are not minor choices. As such, when it comes to fundamental issues of life, Mother Nature teaches us that we can’t have it both ways. We can’t take birth control pills and expect to maintain physical and emotional integrity. We can’t engage in sex and not expect the possibility of having a baby. We can’t be pregnant and expect not to give birth. We can’t marry and expect to have freedom to abandon or betray our family. We can’t engage in homosexual activity and expect to become parents. We can’t get drunk and drive a car. We can’t be high on drugs and play with a gun. We can’t legalize or empower toxic behaviors and expect individual or social stability. Mere existence of personal or legal options can be damaging to the lifestyles we designed such options to protect. Leaving one’s options open in professional and other endeavors is not the same as leaving one’s options open in an indissoluble bond between a man, woman and child.
Since our desires, demands, fears or laws cannot change the truth nor basic cycles of life, we need to ensure that our laws are in harmony with individual integrity as well as family and national security. While some might think of such a challenge as unattainable, facts about divorce prove otherwise—most of us do not disobey major laws of life out of innate malice but due to harmful social conditioning shaped by our laws and con-fused parenting created by social engineering. Although parents and children in stable ethical families have also been known to disobey laws, such cases were rare—due to corrupt laws and trends, unethical behaviors within stable families have been becoming more common. Serious unethical conduct always leads to a divorce from God and oftentimes, families and society. As such, almost every divorce has one guilty and one innocent spouse and children who maintained ethical behavior and did not want to divorce but were forced to divorce by law. As such, despite years of horrific damages to all basic cycles of life, underneath superficial confusion, majority of people still believe that marriage is a lifetime commitment and joy. Likewise, teen sex, cohabitation, adultery, divorce and remarriage cannot be considered as unstoppable passions when millions have been able to stop cheating or to never even think of betrayal in the first place. Similarly, how can uncontrollable passions be considered as natural when most must rely on unnatural birth control measures or abortions. Surely, without birth control and abortions, cheating would probably become stoppable. Because having children is a big joy as well as responsibility, most of us would opt for self-control and do the right thing for us and for our children—we would abstain from sex until marriage. Common sense would force us to make an emotional and physical decision based on our own needs as well as vital needs of our children. Even our dating habits would change—we would focus on someone’s ability to be a loving and responsible parent instead of their ability to dance or quality of their clothing and other French benefits which are important but not superior to an honorable and responsible character.
Not all of us care or care to comprehend the scope of damages to our society and traditional religions from No-fault laws, abortion, cohabitation, domestic partnerships and gay marriages. All of us care and comprehend personal damages—needless to say, they are all one and the same. The time to act is NOW. Allowing current cycles to continue will eventually make marriage almost impossible or highly dangerous due to the scope of erosion within elements essential for a stable and loving marriage as well as parenting—truth, integrity, honor & responsibility. Almost all of today’s singles will confirm that inability to find suitable mates is already a tragic reality. The younger generation is in a similar or worse situation due to toxic social conditioning or divorce and shared child custody. No-fault not only deprived them of a stable childhood but it also deprived most ethical parents of authority and at times, custody of their own children.
Some of our “luminaries” claim that hard work and honesty will still create private & public prosperity—such “experts” are wrong & out of touch with reality. To compound the problem, countless conservatives still believe that public opinion or votes can help to restore traditional American values and families—those experts also need a reality check. Adulteration of traditional values is nothing new. While some believe our society to be 20% conservative and 80% liberal, a closer examination might disclose a worse scenario—probably less than 10% of families consist of “genuinely” conservative parents and even their stability is temporary or at times questionable. Our crises are so deep that all Americans have been directly or indirectly influenced by current trends, laws & lifestyles. Consequently, very few of us are able to make proper choices on personal & additional critical issues: capital punishment, euthanasia, artificial insemination, embryonic stem cell research & others. In short, after a legally protected or mandated attack & erosion of standard or obvious facts of life, decisions on more complex issues are often inadequate.
“Pearls before Swine: Do not give what is holy to dogs, or throw your pearls before swine, lest they trample them underfoot, and turn and tear you to pieces.” Mt 7:6
America is not the only country in jeopardy. Pandemic infections caused by a social crisis are very similar to the 2009 outbreak or threat of swine flu. Signs of a global catastrophe are everywhere—from Asia, Africa, North & South America to Europe & Australia—one would think that even Antarctica has been visited by a few ghosts of past, present and future. Looking at the big picture, all nations and top leaders will still confirm that the “natural family” is the cornerstone of civilization. Yet, G20 summits for economic reform are already history while a major summit for social reform will probably never happen. Because countless global leaders or luminaries have already proclaimed their immoral private lives as honorable, immoral adults in the private sector and in our homes have been empowered to do the same. “One of the misfortunes of our time is that in getting rid of false shame we have killed off so much real shame as well.” Consequently, when pro-choice, adulterous or homosexual lifestyles become public, instead of shame, repentance, change & reparations, most adults flaunt their private affairs with great ecstasy & defiance. Brutal, vulgar and at times, deadly betrayals have reached frightening levels of confidence & arrogance only because most perpetrators are guaranteed a free pass from most family members, colleagues, friends and society. Even many pastors have given up their responsibility for the pleasure of popularity or prosperity. Damages are so deep that America is on the edge of becoming a Judeo-Christian nation in name only and so are many Christians & Jews. It’s not our fault.
Crazies to the Left of Me, Wimps to the Right: How One Side Lost Its Mind and the Other Side Lost Its Nerve. Although Mr. Goldberg does not usually deal with “private affairs nor family matters,” he does address critical political issues. Needless to say, problem and solutions have been around for decades. It has been intimated that top leaders like President Obama or Pope Benedict XVI must at times remain somewhat neutral and allow top leaders in their administration to handle highly volatile details. While our economic crisis and others have proven neutrality theories to be wrong, President Obama is not the first nor the last President in need of selective evasive maneuvers. Unfortunately, Mrs. Obama might find herself in a very similar situation. According to tradition, a First Lady does not select a “special cause” but a “safe cause.” Consequently, even though saving American families has been the most important cause in America for decades, every First Lady ignored it because it’s not a “safe cause.” As if, their popularity & protection of their political party are of utmost importance and our suffering & safety are not. Although Obamas’ power & popularity along with past experience in community activism gives them an unprecedented opportunity to end our Culture Wars, it might not happen—since ALL Democrats, Republicans and Independents have played it safe for about 50 years, “change we can believe in” will probably be as real as Santa Claus but not as real as God or Jesus. Oddly, advocates within public media are not doing much better. Consequently, after decades of a corrupt media trying to keep politicians honest, results of the 2008 election were obvious even before the elections began.
To date, countless luminaries within government, media, business or entertainment are more into self-service than public service. They are our gods and the censors they claim to fight against—they decide which laws are important or what information is of value to the general public. While making such decisions is a vital and normal part of any society, having such decisions made by misinformed, misguided or often malicious leaders is not only dangerous but unconstitutional. Our society’s family crisis, speaks for itself. The Credit Card Reform Bill has already been signed while the “other” side of our two-headed monster is not even on the agenda. Why aren’t our leaders overturning tables, divorce, abortion & gay marriage laws? They can’t—most are too busy working on behalf of their own liberal or personal agendas—others are busy with turning away or silencing the opposition! Needless to say, given that millions of dollars & mega groups could not stop the insanity, what are the chances that an average mother, father or child will be heard, represented or protected? NONE plus zilch, zero, zip, nada!
“Pain & Justified Anger” are Mother Nature’s alarm clock. Tragically, instead of healing roots of our crisis, the ABA, AMA & APA prefer to medicate & legislate pain more than eliminating it. Consequently, our only true option has been to embrace, enjoy and protect painful alternative lifestyles despite their harm and danger. Even though years of suffering have already proven differences between justice and a false sense of security, we cling to No-fault divorce, gay marriage, abortion or other damaging practices as though they were our salvation. If truth be told, corruption has been our only salvation because private individuals cannot end a crisis created by public laws. Only our luminaries have enough money & clout to end corruption. While some of our leaders prefer to take their time, others wait for bureaucracy to make the first move—for them it’s only a job—for us, it’s a matter of life and too often, death. One would think that our enslavement to corrupt laws and our experts’ professional code of ethics would be sufficient enough to inspire them into action years ago. One might be wronged: ”As Mike McManus points out in his sometimes angry new book about no fault, How To Cut America’s Divorce Rate in Half, in many states all or nearly all of the state legislators serving on relevant committees are attorneys. If they are not divorce attorneys…who make money on divorce cases, their sympathies are with their colleagues, not with those who want divorce more difficult to obtain.”
“Honesty in States, as well as Individuals, will ever be found the soundest policy.” George Washington – Contrary to current trends, misinformation & leadership, if we are seeking truth & justice, “irreconcilable differences” are reconcilable and America’s duty as God’s country is undeniable. Likewise, true beauty of America has already been confirmed by every Atheist, Agnostic, Jew, Christian, Muslim, Hindu and all else—years ago we all had the vision to gather in America for good. Now we must envision and enable America’s true destiny—love, truth, justice & harmony within every mind, heart & soul in America!
“The government is the problem and the solution.” Only laws are powerful enough to end adulterization of our souls and to heal the wounded soul of our nation. Our leaders did not create our Crisis—just like family members enable our crisis in private, our leaders enable it in the public forum. As such, it took less than 50 years to destroy a civilization that we inherited through the blood, sweat, tears and dreams of our forefathers. With brutal wars inside & outside of the United States, it seemed unwise for a President of a Judeo-Christian nation to marginalize the “National” Day of Prayer and the Tea Parties! Quite obviously, President Obama finds Prayer & Tea Parties less beneficial than WHCA dinners, celebrations and other commitments. Although none of our Presidents can meet the needs of every citizen, there is no excuse for the way President Obama’s administration and most of the press treated all the participants in the Tea Parties—it was insulting & childish for the Obama administration to initially ignore the Tea Parities—later, it was shocking & dangerous for the President to treat them like a joke. Our nation’s economic crisis has an evil twin—a family crisis. It takes audacity to ignore and then to ridicule millions of “folks waving tea bags” as though they were mindless yokels incapable of serious conversation. A top-level faux pas can only stimulate corruption and fuel our Culture Wars. After all, the vulgarity behind the comment made on CNN is not much different than the venom unleashed upon Miss California, Carrie Prejean. For NOW, since government & media corruption eroded many of our rights, all most of us can do is PRAY that Ms. Prejean will not have to endure the same injustice that ruined Ms. Anita Bryant’s life. Not enough leaders came to her support since 1977 and not enough leaders are fighting to protect our families, religions and country today.
Too many of our leaders are a danger unto themselves and our nation—instead of turning the tables most are hiding under the tables or behind their diplomas or colleagues while others are victims of their own laws and loss of families, morals or minds. “The only thing we have to fear, is fear itself?” Not quite! Our fear is as real as years of liberal doses of suppression, oppression & depression. Being exploited & Expelled in more ways than one is an outrage. Despite “intelligence and power” of luminary experts, gay marriages are already allowed and protected while natural laws of life and traditional religions are not protected. Victims of No-fault injustice are still not allowed to protect themselves, their families and their faith while adulterous spouses are free in infect our families and society. Within endless talks about abortion, end of abortion seems as easy as end of hostile feminism. To date, instead of empowering families to take care of their own, masters of distraction retooled us to run in circles—instead of inspiring us to make families our #1 priority, we’re being taught to focus and rely on community activism. Children pray and need to be with their fathers, not mentors. The elderly pray and deserve to be with their families, not volunteers. Abandoned husbands and wives pray and need reconciliation not self-help groups—they deserve humanitarian efforts from their mates, not false inspiration or token donations. The bond of marriage is thicker than water—it’s indissoluble. Abandoning a wife is as tragic as abandoning a child. Adulterous women inflict the same type of pain and suffering on their husbands as they do on their children. Joining a singles group or an internet dating site does not end the pain or problems because the first step to ending a problem is its validation—then, reconciliation.
With our laws and government skipping over Plan A and advocating Plan D, professional and community action is just another code word in the endless art of distraction to protect leaders’ popularity, power and lack of action—one does not have to be a genius to know that vital reforms in No-fault divorce laws, gay marriages, abortion and other violations require a legislative initiative, wisdom, empathy and courage. Our crisis could have been prevented. ”Never waste a good crisis?” End of our crisis can be as real as the legion of Rhodes Scholars, Nobel Prize Winners, powerful politicians, savvy business moguls and talented superstars in the entertainment or sports industry. Perhaps, when our leaders do get real and begin to Do the Right Thing no intelligence should be allowed until our crisis is solved. Unfortunately, it’s quite possible that our fearless leaders will continue to see no evil of homosexuality, hear no evil of No-fault injustice and speak no evil of abortions. Because laws always speak louder than words, it’s quite obvious that most leaders have never felt our Paine. Seeing how The American Crisis doesn’t ring any bells, perhaps the only antidote for our leaders’ ADD might be a Class Action Lawsuit. We can’t escape our history, we can’t escape our leadership and we can’t join them. Yes we can? No we can’t! Mainstream Americans can’t end being forced to shut up, sing and dance to liberal demands. Only our leaders can turn or reverse social engineering and its damages. If truth be told it is as easy as one promise from one concerned pro or luminary—after all, A Chorus Line of One can be as powerful as the singular sensation of Yes We Can! To follow in the footsteps of such promises, only One song can inspire A Change We The People Can Believe In: ”Anything liberals can do, conservatives can do better.” Traditional American Values not only gave birth to America but they are also the only fundamental values that can keep, honor and protect her: America – The Land of the Free and the Home of the Brave!
No one can serve two masters. He will either hate one and love the other, or be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon.” Mt 6:24
“Common Sense lived a long life but died in the United States from heart failure on the brink of the new millennium … Common Sense was preceded in death by his parents, Truth and Trust; his wife, Discretion; his daughter, Responsibility; and his son, Reason. He is survived by two stepbrothers and a stepsister: My Rights, Only Me and Ima Whiner.” The Death of Common Sense by Lori Borgman
